Can t cum in front of his freinds

I have been with my boyfriend for two months and we were both virgins when we had sex for the first time. I feel so sad because I can't get him to come. We do foreplay and I give him oral sex to get him in the mood. He says once he enters me it feels good but after a minute he doesn't feel anything any more. Can you please help us get over this problem?

Whenever I masturbate I can ejaculate with no problems. I have not talked to her about this. Your notion of experimentation is good, as you need to find ways of bridging the gap between solo sex and partner sex — and to practise them until they become easy and habitual. You could try masturbating first, but if that is secretive, you may run the risk of establishing a style that is difficult to change. Rather, aim to incorporate self-pleasuring into your love-making sessions with your girlfriend as a preferred bridging method. Try masturbating to finish in her presence preferably after satisfying her.

And let me tell you, it's the opposite of sexy. If you've found yourself in this position, obsessing over the "why," know this: it may be complicated, but this issue is actually incredibly common. D , a sexologist and relationship expert. Totally bunk, it turns out. While most men will experience some sort of inability to orgasm from time to time, there is a more serious condition delayed ejaculation syndrome.

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