Yes, regularly. Since I was 17, by my first boyfriend. Unfortunately he was a sadist, more than a kinkster and it did become abusive and controlling. That didn't ruin spanking for me though. And since I have been spanked for many reasons, both fun and serious, by Many different people. The first time I had correctional spanking, I was I was seeing a married man my parents age every week for dungeon play and dinner.
Spanking is a great way to inject a bit of playful pain into an intimate experience, and vary the array of sensations that are on offer. Some do it to feel dominant, while others accept it to feel dominated , and many just do it to add that extra bit of spice. It can be enjoyed by both partners — because it goes both ways — but only if proper spanking etiquette is followed, such as;. Okay, so your rings are removed and you know where to aim, but what now?
We had met a few weeks earlier through a Stanford student group. He was quiet and broad-shouldered. I liked him right away. I was thunderstruck. This obsession felt impossible to share, so I was always hungry for cues that someone could relate.